Comments on oh.: oh. number fifty-eight.

you must be gorgeous though.

2009-07-10T03:31:48.621+02:00

you must be gorgeous though.

The heart is a strong muscle, it can take it. Don'...

2009-05-28T23:20:13.545+02:00

The heart is a strong muscle, it can take it. Don't let people take advantage of you, but don't think either that people who use you only bring you down.
All of us take what we can get from any given situation - or person.
I just see it as a positive trate that you can forget after being mistreated.
I let people use me, even to the point of abuse, but I forgive them mostly, if they're important to me. I just can't not do it.
You love. That's normal.

3 makes a trend

2009-05-24T11:03:12.013+02:00

3 makes a trend

I used to believe the whole 'fool me once' thing f...

2009-03-30T21:41:00.000+02:00

I used to believe the whole 'fool me once' thing for a long time too. Then a friend told me she actually admired me for being such a trusting, loving person that I repeatedly forgave someone for using me.

I know you probably say 'nooo, it's all my own fault', just like me when she said that, but please consider the opposite of your current thoughts too.

You weren't perfectly happy and then somebody abused you; it just went gradually downhill. Please forgive yourself. Be kind to yourself. Would you keep/like a friend that says these kind of things you're saying to yourself? Of course not, so don't accept such negative statements from yourself. You can't change what you did and let people do to you in the past, but please do not continue being abused. Not by other people, but certainly not by yourself.